Can You Manifest When You Don’t Know What You Want? (Let’s Find Out!)

My Manifesting Journey: Honest Thoughts & 66-Day Experiment! ✨

I’ve been reading up on manifestation (specifically Roxie Nafousi’s work!), and it really made me look in the mirror. Living with chronic illness means my energy and goals change daily, so I am putting these manifestation steps to the test for the next 66 days to see what actually works for us wellness newbies.

Here is my completely honest, slightly messy breakdown of where I’m at! 👇

1. Clear Vision? (Work in Progress!) 🧭

  • The Struggle: Total honesty—I don’t know exactly what I want! One day I want a career glow-up, the next I want a family, and then I want to drop everything to be a horse-riding instructor. 🐴
  • The Vibe: I love skincare, coaching, and making women feel confident.
  • The Sick-Girl Hack: Since my body and mood change constantly, I’m starting by manifesting a feeling of future happiness instead of a rigid, stressful plan.

2. Ditching Fear & Doubt 🙈

  • The Struggle: I thought I didn’t care what people thought, but I hate being embarrassed. The fear of friends or family laughing behind my back has stopped me from trying so many things.
  • The Confession: I’ve started and deleted blogs so many times because of this fear!
  • The Plan: This blog is my breakthrough. I’m pushing past the fear because we all deserve the life we want. No more deleting! 💻

3. Aligning Behaviour & Overcoming Tests 💪

  • The Strength: My 20s threw a lot of curveballs at me. Navigating health issues means I am great at putting my head down and powering through.
  • The Support: I couldn’t do it alone—I have an amazing support system around me.
  • The Plan: My biggest hurdle is falling back into old habits when energy is low. I am committing to Roxie’s 66-day rule to build gentle, healthy daily routines that actually stick.

4. Frequency & Gratitude Shift 💖

  • The Realisation: I always look at the worst-case scenario to protect myself from medical disappointment. But Roxie says this tells the universe you aren’t worthy of more.
  • The Shift: I took basic things for granted. Despite my flare-ups, I can walk, speak, and manage my symptoms. I’m shifting my frequency from “expecting” these things to being deeply grateful for my body’s resilience. 🙏

5. Turning Envy into Inspiration 👯‍♀️

  • The Struggle: I don’t have one single role model because I don’t know my exact path yet.
  • The Plan: Look closer to home! My close friend is absolutely smashing her career. Even though we are in totally different fields, I am using her drive as my ultimate inspiration to level up.

6. Trusting the Universe 🌌

  • The Doubt: It is hard to trust when big dreams take time (though buying my flat definitely counts as a major manifestation win!).

The 66-Day Challenge 🗓️

Am I a 100% believer yet? Not quite. But I am giving this my absolute all for the next 66 days.

Stay tuned—I’ll post a completely honest update on how this fits into a chronic illness lifestyle when the challenge is up!

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